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You鈥檙e finally here. It鈥檚 finally here. On the other side – freedom, choices, opportunities, no more school uniform! But here, looking at your final year, it can be a little daunting. It鈥檚 a lot for anyone to face.聽

For neurodiverse folks, sustaining focus and hard work for a whole year can be an extra challenge. People with ADHD tend to work in short, sharp, efficient bursts powered by interest, competition, novelty or urgency.

No one wants to get stuck in competition mode, urgent fear or the excitement of novelty and interest for an entire year solid – how would you sleep? How could you take a break? Do you just collapse for a year at the end of it to compensate?

First, reality checks: no one is working at full focus for the whole year. Even if they think about little else on purpose, they鈥檙e still existing as humans which means they鈥檙e thinking about dinner, about that special someone (IRL or in a book, don鈥檛 judge!), sleeping, worrying about what to do next year, and balancing the fear that they鈥檙e doing it wrong and it will all collapse in a heap of failure.

So, for everybody facing their final year, you鈥檙e all in the same boat. It鈥檚 a big boat, you are not alone and you can get through it without causing an irrevocable personal apocalypse.

Come back to that reality check whenever you need to level your head. Fear, anxiety, frustration and procrastination may follow you through the year but every single time the answer is that you are not alone, the world will keep spinning, you are enough as you are and you are doing a wonderful job, even if you don鈥檛 like your marks.聽

So, how to hack the final year to suit your ADHD brain? These tips can be useful for brains without ADHD too, so take pride in using these ideas to help yourself succeed.

 

1. Brains need bodies

Your final year of schooling will bring a massive cognitive load. All those worries, all that content, all that practice to do and all the complexities of being seventeen-ish in a sea of your peers.

ADHD adds to that cognitive load and can make it harder to hear what your body needs. So, treat your body as if it鈥檚 a small child or beloved pet in your care with no one else to look out for it. It needs water, food, movement, rest and sleep – build your day around these pillars if you can.聽

How? Set alarms for everything (with gentle songs or tones so you鈥檙e not constantly jumping out of your skin). An hourly 鈥榮ip and stretch鈥� reminder from your phone or smart watch, a pre-breakfast 鈥榯hink about breakfast鈥� prompt and as many 鈥榞et to bed鈥� alarms as you have to get out of bed can help you take control.

Use the 鈥榬epeat鈥� function to make sure it happens every day and that you don鈥檛 have to think about it again. This takes a lot of worry pressure off your brain through the day – you set this up really well, and you built in flexibility with your back ups, you can trust past you to look after present you and let your brain stop calculating whether you鈥檝e looked after yourself properly.聽

We do need to talk about food. Food can be a real challenge for people with ADHD, not because of any inherent eating disorders (though if you do struggle with disordered eating, please follow your professional鈥檚 advice – your health matters so much more than your marks) but because of boredom and distraction.

If you鈥檙e hyperfocused, you鈥檙e likely to forget to eat, be hungry and grab the nearest edible substance which is usually sugary or salty because that stuff lasts forever, gives a dopamine hit, and doesn鈥檛 need to live in a fridge. Annoyingly, that kind of food doesn鈥檛 make your brain happy.聽

There are some speedy, transportable and more healthy options, though nothing can top a fresh cooked meal chockers full of veggies. Pre-cooked rice cups that you microwave, oat sachets, sliced deli meats, protein shakes, and pre-noodled veggie packs (zoodles or the pumpkin ones that unfortunately aren鈥檛 called poodles) are your friends.

Pre-cooked frozen meals can be wonderful if you or someone you live with can be bothered batch cooking something tasty. The microwave is your friend. Not your best friend for life, but if it鈥檚 the difference between eating some lollies or getting some nutrients, then zap away.聽

Your brain needs your body, so look after your body to look after both!

 

2. Sensational strategies

Beyond keeping you alive, your body can be a helpful academic supporter for your brain. How we encounter information can help our brains to remember that information more efficiently, and can help us to prompt our brains to access that information later. So, use your senses in your studying and do it consistently from the beginning of the year.聽

Sight: Use colour coding to help your brain organise information into subjects. Not just in the tabs or book cover of your notes but in everything. Everything related to Maths should be, say, blue – the paper in your notepad or notebook, the highlighter you use, the text colour by hand or online, the background in your online notes, the folder on your desktop. Assign colours to subjects following your gut feeling and stick to it from day 1.聽Some days you鈥檒l hate the English colour, and others you鈥檒l be keen for the History colour (I hope, please do History, I鈥檓 not biased in this advice by being a history teacher at all), but those are signs that it鈥檚 working. You鈥檙e activating your body to help your brain.聽

Sound: Similar to colour coding, use sound coding to help you study. A particular band, album, song or genre for each subject will give your brain memorable structures and save it from a lot of planning, analysis and anxiety. Bonus, when you鈥檙e stuck in the exam, start to 鈥榩lay鈥� a relevant song in your head and watch your brain shift into gear.聽

Smell: Just like colour and sound, allocating a smell to a specific subject will help to get your brain on board and ease the load of studying. Candles and essential oils are an easy choice (you can just take a whiff of them without lighting them or spraying them around, but try not to get essential oils straight on your skin). You can also use spices in little jars, plants from outside, different perfumes, room sprays, moisturisers or even muscle and congestion rubs which each have fairly distinctive smells. Remember, the point is to make your brain happy so don鈥檛 go overboard and stop using anything that gives you a headache.

Taste: As with the others, if you鈥檙e a gum chewer, use different flavours for different subjects. Particular healthy snacks can also help here – a little tub of almonds on your desk for studying Biology, jerky for Physics and crunchy oats for English might help to keep you nourished as well as help your brain to store information more easily. This is not to recommend continuous grazing while you study, but to provide a taste prompt for your brain.聽

Touch: Last one, but this one鈥檚 excellent for ADHDers in particular. When you鈥檙e studying, you may be managing fidgeting. Having a specific thing you fidget with for each subject can help too. You鈥檒l know your fidgets if you have them, but things like a fidget spinner, pop trays, bubble wrap, a coiled tape measure, different pens and markers to twirl or click or tap, drumsticks, rings – allocate them to a subject, just for this year.

 

2. Code Yourself

Before things get into full swing at school, write yourself a list of behaviour codes that are tailored to you, your warning signs and your attention habits. You may have to do an audit, and a friend or family member might be helpful, but if you can get a list going of things like:

• 鈥榳hen the laundry covers the top of the chair completely, it鈥檚 time to put on a twenty minute show I鈥檝e seen a thousand times in the background, and race the show to get the laundry put away or into the machine鈥�
• 鈥榠f I stand up after studying and get a head rush, it鈥檚 time to leave the room, do a forward fold and a sun salute, and find water鈥�
• 鈥榠f I cry twice in a day, that evening is a write off and it鈥檚 time for a hoodie, favourite craft and an early bed鈥�
• 鈥榠f we get the assessment back today, no matter the result, I will take myself out for frozen yoghurt or go barefoot in the park after school鈥�

This list will grow and change, and you might decide to respond differently to your behaviour marker when it comes up, but the point is that this eases the decision-making load on your brain because you鈥檝e already told yourself what you鈥檙e supposed to do next. It also helps you to figure out how you鈥檙e feeling and how your body鈥檚 going, since ADHD can make it harder to notice these things.

 

4. 鈥淕et organised鈥�

This instruction can be the bane of the ADHDer鈥檚 school or work life. Advice like 鈥榡ust get organised鈥�, 鈥榟ave you thought of using a planner?鈥�, and 鈥榗alendar apps will solve your life鈥� is right up there with 鈥榡ust sit still鈥�, 鈥榯ake a deep breath鈥� and 鈥榝ocus, don鈥檛 get distracted鈥� in the list of annoying, frustrating and infuriating 鈥榮olutions鈥� for ADHD. So, instead, let鈥檚 talk about strategising.聽

Odds are, you will get unsolicited advice about organisation, study and your future from people throughout the year, that鈥檚 true for all students, it鈥檚 not unique to ADHDers.

But, ADHDers face a lot more 鈥榗orrective feedback鈥� than others in general, which means that your reserves of patience, grace, humour and resilience might be a bit more depleted than those of your neurotypical peers.聽

So, like coding for yourself, plan some responses to these kinds of frustrating moments. They can be vague, like 鈥業鈥檒l think about that鈥� or 鈥榳ise鈥� or they can be honest, like 鈥業鈥檇 rather not discuss this on the weekend/at a party/when I鈥檓 tired鈥�.

You can be funny but try not to be cruel – yes, it鈥檚 annoying and sometimes ignorant if the person should already know that you鈥檝e tried everything, but unsolicited advice like this is usually kindly motivated and it鈥檚 almost never worth the effort of conflict.聽

But how do you actually get organised with ADHD? If there were a universal solution, it would be everywhere and someone would be a millionaire. Trial and error and self-forgiveness are the main tools for getting organised with ADHD.聽

A paper wall planner might be brilliant for your sibling but awful for you. A school diary might have been brilliant last year but a source of guilt this year. A calendar app might have improved, or there might have been new software updates that resolve an issue you previously found infuriating. Audit your own preferences and go from there. Some things to consider:

• do notifications help you or annoy you?
• do paper planners fill you with excitement or dread at the moment?
• how can you use guilt productively for yourself – as in, how can you prompt yourself to avoid or minimise guilt rather than let it build up and get you down?
• is a well-tended email inbox enough? Can you email yourself important tasks and then not delete the email until it鈥檚 complete?
• are you currently managing to stick to your ADHD management plan if you have one? Are you remembering your meds (if you take them), and to get to all appointments (for ADHD and otherwise, like bracers, chiropractors, physios, facials, etc)?聽
• are you getting all your priority tasks done (like exercise and food and friends)? Be honest about your priorities, if you don鈥檛 care about tidying your room then be honest, but consider when 鈥榓voiding a parental explosion鈥� will become a priority too.
• can someone you trust help with this without it being a full-time job for them?
• can you trick yourself with early due dates for assignments?
• can your teachers send you reminders via email for big tasks? (some will, some won鈥檛, some will mean to and forget)
• are post it notes the answer?聽

Wherever you land on organisation, be kind to yourself – you鈥檙e doing your best and no one can ask for more than that.

 

5. Ask for help

Building on organisation, you can create a buffer around your ADHD struggles by talking to people. You don鈥檛 have to be obvious or loud about it or become 鈥榯he ADHD kid,鈥� but sending a teacher an email letting them know that you struggle with focus and organisation, that you鈥檙e doing your best and could they please send reminders or forgive a late assignment can go an awfully long way to easing the pressure.聽

Similarly, if special provisions are available to you, explore that option. It鈥檚 not 鈥榗heating鈥� or being lazy or being a 鈥榮nowflake鈥�. Our education system has recognised that not everyone operates in the same way and that some life circumstances can impact school performance.

It鈥檚 done this through the special considerations provisions and while the system is a long way from perfect, it鈥檚 not going to get better by suffering in silence, punishing yourself unnecessarily because your brain has a difficult relationship with dopamine that is entirely beyond your control, or disadvantaging yourself to avoid other people (who don鈥檛 know or particularly care about you) thinking you鈥檙e lazy.聽

In terms of daily life organisation, people can be surprisingly helpful if you ask. A good friend might be more than happy to send you 鈥榮tand up and stretch reminders鈥� every time they do that themselves, and a sibling might enjoy trying to surprise you with their 鈥榙rink water鈥� reminders.

Help can be fun and it can build bonds with other people, and you can always thank them for their help and ask them to stand down from reminder duty if you want change.聽

You can also motivate yourself by offering to help others. You may not be great at remembering to feed yourself but if you鈥檙e worried a friend might be holding off on their after-school snack until you remind them, you鈥檙e both much more likely to end up eating.

Plus, helping others gives us nice rushes of dopamine, as well as purpose, meaning and stronger relationships. Worth a try!

 

6. Hack your hyperfocus

This is the part of ADHD that people call a superpower and, like all heroes at school, you鈥檙e still learning how to use your powers properly and for good.聽

Long term projects like preparing for a major exam or doing major works for creative subjects or extension English courses can be daunting enough to stop you from even trying, whether ADHD is a factor or not.

One hack that can help here is to turn the long haul into a bunch of short haul problems. You and your peers have a certain distance to cover. If they can do it at a steady jog without stopping, that鈥檚 great. You might prefer to sprint and rest, and that is great too. It鈥檚 allowed, you have permission, you don鈥檛 have to account for how you鈥檙e getting yourself there.聽

What does this look like? If you鈥檝e got a major project or just want to organise a study plan, chat with the teacher, a classmate, a sibling, a parent or a tutor and break that project down into all the relevant steps, bits, distraction points and probable problems.

Predicting what needs to happen is difficult for everyone, so having someone to talk it through with can bring things down to earth and help you get real about what you need to do. Make sure the steps all get written down, ideally in a shareable format that can help you seek accountability later.

Then, you can treat each of those project blocks as an independent task, do them when you鈥檝e got a focus burst, and then stop thinking about it in the gaps. Don鈥檛 beat yourself up for not being 鈥榦n鈥� all the time, for taking breaks or for doing things your way.聽

An example of how this might look for a study plan could be looking at the syllabus and the class content plan and deciding that notes are due on each syllabus dot point on a certain date (with an accountability check or a funishment – like having to let your sibling style your hair, or hanging with your accountability friend but they get to choose the film and you have no say in it.

Obviously, if you do the work on time, you get to make them look silly or choose the movie). Then you can add in practice activities and build things up across the year until you鈥檙e doing timed practice papers.聽

For a major work, you might need to think differently. If it involves research and inspiration, you may need to set a time limit on that – as in, you鈥檒l let your mind run wild until Monday of Week 6 and then you have to work from there.

That can help prevent you from thinking 鈥榖ut there must be an answer out there鈥�, 鈥業 can solve the whole problem鈥� and 鈥榠f I just do a bit more research I鈥檒l be ready to do the next step鈥�.

Then, if it involves writing, you owe someone 500 words a week through term 1, or a complete first draft by the end of term. ADHD brains thrive on urgency, so take some control of what is urgent and when and direct your hyperfocus to take over from any procrastination guilt.

 

6. Manage Distractions

ADHD can be a wonderful thing. It can help you master a subject overnight, see solutions others can鈥檛 fathom and give you endless reserves of enthusiasm.

But, when you鈥檙e trying to do a final year of school, the glitter of interest can fade from schoolwork and march off into the woods of distraction.聽 When this happens, there鈥檚 no point telling yourself off for it. Instead, recognise it, respect it and manage it.聽

How? Keep a future file. This can be in any format as long as it can catch all of the things that you want to investigate and explore outside of school life. Big or small, by writing down the idea that鈥檚 niggling at your focus, you鈥檙e giving your brain the reassurance that you both can and will come back to it, and that the idea is safe until that time.

The notes feature on your phone can be great for this, as can keeping open a draft email to yourself, or a piece of paper at the back of your school folder.聽

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